It’s divine timing for the NEW right about now because it’s New Moon magic baby!! Are you making space for epic love(s) in your life?! I sure hope so! There are infinite ways to make room for that which your heart longs for! <3!

Every New Moon I attempt to do a ritual that I regularly practice and a new one that I’ve been wanting to do for a minute. Today, this looked like making sure I worked out (I actually did twice) and doing something new like trimming my hair which is something I’ve been wanting to do, a few moons ago! YAY!

I also gave myself a very needed healing yoni self pleasure ritual yesterday, the day before the New Moon. After experiencing a traumatic event in Mexico, I knew I needed to reclaim my power in a sexual and tantric way and because I wanted to create more room for deep love and exquisite support in my wild life! I made love to my base, yoni and my clit, all in one go using my rose quartz crystal lingham, my hands and at the end sealing the energy with my yoni obsidian egg (which are for sale! ;))! tehe It was quite entertaining especially one point when I forgot that people can see me through my big ass windows!


I told myself that moving to Mexico was ALL about maximizing and prioritizing self love! I practice a lot of self love in general but the kind of self love I’m talking about is the FULL self love I need to feel whole and complete within myself. I feel like only an individual can really assess if they’re truly loving themselves fully.

I feel like I’ve been loving myself fully, of course with the occasional challenge and test here and there. All in all though, the entire time I’ve been here it’s been all about asking myself “What do I need to be and do to live happily and freely in exotic Mexican paradise?” Everything I do everyday revolves around that inquiry which is a direct reflection of loving myself fully because I am living my dreams by living here and teaching Tantra! <3!

I’m so grateful that today on the New Moon I booked a client who will be joining me in Mexico for a 4 day exotic tantra retreat intensive! <3! It was divine timing and everything felt so right about our exchange. It was so special because I specially offered my self pleasure yoni ritual to teaching more in Mexico and bam the universe provided the next day!! ((( <3 ))) Gracias Madresita, Diosito y el universo! <3! (Thank you Virgin Mary, God, & the universe ;))

If I can do it, you can too! Take this moment to tune into yourself on this New Moon and ask, “What is my yoni/lingham heart desiring on this New Moon and what does it want to let go of to create room for that?”


I feel SO inspired to be a bridge of transformation with my clients as I get to share my favorite tantric, exotic and indigenous world. The fascinating part about this too is that I get to be a bridge as well for Mexicans too just by being my full complete sexually empowered self! If you are interested in exploring this exotic transformational bliss with me, send me an email and let’s secure your tantric retreat! Serious inquiries only loves! The tropics get super booked starting mid October for 4 months solid so please email me asap to secure your retreat home while it’s available now!

New Moon blessings to you dear one! <3!!


iX-CheL Sandivel is an intimacy and transformational coach. She is living in exotic tropical paradise where she leads Tantra retreat intensives. She’s qualified by the oldest school of tantra in the west, as a Source Tantra Yoga Associate & certified Advanced Tantra Educator. She’s most known for her “Sensual Surrender Play Shop for Women” where women learn to embrace their creative life force energy, and to play a dominant role at the “Dakini Domme Knight Masquerade.” Sign up to receive Moon Love Letters at the homepage. Follow iX-Chel on Instagram at @ixchel_sandivel