The moon is waxing right now. Have you had a chance to see the moon? It’s so beautiful. If you haven’t… you can see her here below. (You might need a microscope lol)  Personal trick: If you want your hair growth to accelerate, a waxing moon is the perfect time for that! 

SO much has happened since I last wrote to you. I am back on my single journey and it feels right! I think my heart needs the devotional loyalty from my-self more than anything. I’m not in a place to receive and hold the let downs of any primary beloved so I’m back to being single! Woot woot!! Celebrating now and grabbing a tissue in a second lol

When I’m deep in a partnership, it’s necessary to love my partner(s) from a place of self love within. This is one of the ways I can tell when something no longer feels right… such as I can ask myself, is this something I would do to myself?  

My most intimate relationship becomes a priority because somehow my own self love needs get met too. How? Why? Well in order to deal with challenges and uncomfortable situations in a relationship, it takes self love to speak up and self work to apply the lessons in your relationship and personal life. So much growth and power! The thing is I’m not in a place to hold a lot of “compassionate let downs” at this point of my life. I’m in a place where I can only hold the “let downs” of my work, personal life and puppy lol. It takes self work and love to acknowledge this and in many ways this is also honoring a relationship that isn’t compatible anymore. 

As I move through these ouchies, I want to share what I’ve been up to lately…

I’m currently in the east coast and it’s my second month away from being in my home in Mexico and a month from being with my best friend, my puppy (real puppy) not my submissive… Although I am looking for a submissive “pet” who would like to serve and help me spread my sacred work. Apply here if this is you or want to learn more:

Since I’ve left Mexico, I celebrated a beloveds birthday in LA, participated in a weekend serpent priestess training, lead a Sensual Surrender Weekend Playshop, celebrated my birthday, flew to Iceland, Paris, saw Radiohead in France, traveled to Boston for Sensual Surrender Playshop Wknd and next week I’ll be back in LA and San Diego. Phew! 

It’s been pretty non stop and the last two months have been pretty intense. Lots of bold growth, clarity and transformational yum experiences. 

This past weekend was the tip of my intensity and all in the middle of leading a transformational playshop weekend. I even got a cold! I am still recovering and despite all my vulnerable ouchies, I feel renewed as if I’ve gone through a total rebirth. 

On Sunday, it was the new moon in Leo, I hope you created some ecstatic and regal intentions (Leo qualities) for yourself. This is your access to manifesting powerfully with the eclipses coming ahead in August!

Here are some photos of my travels and some shamanic dancing videos <3!



I’m feeling super charged and want to share this yummyniness with you! 

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iX-CheL Sandivel is an intimacy artist and transformational coach passionate about creating safe, expansive and exquisite experiences that allow the human spirit to evolve into new levels of ecstatic awareness, confidence and self love. She is living in exotic tropical paradise where she leads personal retreat intensives. A Source Tantra Yoga Associate & an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, she’s most known for her “Sensual Surrender Playshop for Women” where women learn to embrace their creative life force energy and to play a dominant matriarchal role at the “Domme Knight Masquerade Experience.”