So yesterday I came out of the closet. Here’s the post in case you missed it on social media….

Apparently it was National Coming Out Day on Wednesday! I believe it’s healthy to practice sexual transparency to create more safety and trust! 💖🙏🏾💕

🌺 I’m pansexual, drawn more to energy than by a binary/gender preference. 😺
🌺 If I had to pick between a yoni and lingham for my last love making ritual it would be a lingham 🕯
🌺 I’m a sex worker; former stripper, Tantra educator, intimacy coach and artist, pro domme 🌹🤓
🌺 I have Herpes I & II 🏄🏾‍♀️
🌺 I love Tantra & BDSM 💞🔫
🌺 I love my hair pulled, being tied up, breathing deeply with my loves, gently biting them too and making love for hours 🎶👂🏾🗝
🌺 I guess I’m poly, monogamy hasn’t really worked out for me lol but having deep and meaningful connections with a few does. 👯💃🏽🕺🏽👬
🌺 I enjoy making love in private and publicly depending on my mood. 💅🏾

This photo below was taken a few years ago at the butt crack of dawn when I was a stripper at Sphearmint Rhino in Las Vegas. 👠💰

After sharing this post with the world, it felt so good to not care about what people think and at the same time allow myself to feel sooo much love and support. I also realized that as much as I appreciate the love and acknowledgment about my sexual transparency, it’s important to me that you don’t see me as someone outside of you being all courageous, brave or inspiring but rather take this opportunity to allow yourself to take whatever action is necessary for you to be “that sexually brave” for yoU! <3!

I wasn’t always that motivated when it came to my sexuality. I had my first out of body experience when I was 5 yrs old but couldn’t talk about sex or knew how to explain it to anyone at the time. I barely knew my name lol Shortly after some sweet long lived orgasms, I was shamed which then kept my sexuality dormant and me from exploring it consciously for like 13 years. I just ignored and suppressed my sexual energy mainly because of my upbringing.

It was 2010 when my sexuality merged with the divine in the most shame free and loving way 🌈🐍. Since then, there’s been no turning back, it’s been an undeniable truth of integrity that guides me along the way in which all my chakras are literally a fuck yes this is so in alignment!! Wuuu huuu!! 😍🙏🏾👌🏾🎉

Prior to 2010…. there would be no way I could possibly imagine being the woman I am today. 🏄🏾‍♀️ I was an athlete who took Calculus Honors in high school, was more interested in my GPA and how fast I was going to run in my next race 🤓🏅🏃🏾‍♀️✔️. Even the one and only day I ditched school it was on senior day, a day designated for this and I told my parents the day before too lol. I had always been a “good Catholic girl” but now I use that devotional energy to honor an undeniable power and truth in me which isn’t always easy to understand but a worthwhile journey to discover and embody.

Join me for a Shame Free YouTube Live Video “Coming Out of Your Kink Closet” Q & A to support you in taking some meaningful action in your life. It’ll be on Tantric Tuesdays, Oct 24th at about 12:30pm PT. Best way to not miss this live video is to subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/user/ixchelsandivel or just type in my name on the Youtube search box. Bring your fabulous questions and something to non alcoholic to drink so can make a toast to your sexual transparency! (( <3 ))

If you know for a fact you need support and love in this area of your life and want to be a little more private about it, you can book a 90 min consultation at the link below. In our consultation, you can also learn about my Sexual Energy Mastery 6 month coaching program: www.ixchelsandivel.com/breakthrough 💪🏾💖✔️

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Love & Blessings!
iX-Chel xoxoox

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iX-CheL Sandivel is an intimacy artist and transformational coach. She is living in exotic tropical paradise where she leads Tantra retreat intensives. A Source Tantra Yoga Associate & Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, she’s the creatrix of “Sensual Surrender PlayShop for Women” where women learn to celebrate their creative life force energy and to play a matriarchal and sexy role at the “Domme Knight Masquerade.”

 

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